I’m not a virgin. I had sex one time, with a very experienced guy, so it was a lot of fun. Not awkward, no “what the heck am I supposed to do with that??” moments. But I ultimately regretted my decision, because I have never been one to have a “fling” or a one-night-stand. At the time, I tried to convince myself that I could do it, but what I really wanted was a life-time commitment (I know, go ahead and gag).

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I’m now engaged to a 26 year old man who IS a virgin, by choice. I imagine if he read this article he would want to start debating your views right away haha. He is quite the opposite of you in the fact that he has always WANTED to find just ONE person to fall in love with, marry, and spend the rest of his life having sex with. I happen to be that lucky girl. Is our first time in bed going to be amazing? Haha who knows. But it will be fun nonetheless.

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Does it say: You’re still ugly, but you, even you, can now can get a girl, because __________”. What’s that because? Fill in that blank, because, like I said, I want to be “surprised” too. And I don’t believe, AT ALL IN THE LEAST, that having sex, fumbling sex, once, (with a prostitute, or a pity lay, with a “conquerer” or via a “tie” as I’ve spelled out above) would give me that answer…. Very interesting article. You’re a good writer, I can give you that. I’ll tell you now that I don’t quite agree on your standards lol, but I’m not going to condemn you for them of course.

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It wasn’t until here recently in society that these stereo types came about. Being a man with standards and morals used to be considered a strength. Just look back at the WWII generation, men were men back in those days. Now not so much, and look what happens. Single parents everywhere you look, kids lacking some major input on their growth. Marriages failing at an astonishing rate, and the all around degradation of morals and standards. Ignore all that bull that comes out of the sewer pipe and be your own man.

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Give up the porn! Seriously. Or at least cut down. Guys who substitute porn for real human interaction (for whatever reason: late-bloomers, painful shyness, saving themselves for someone special) all have the same dysfunctional sexual habits. I’ve seen it over and over (and over and over). Real sex, real good sex, doesn’t look much like a scene in a porno. I always know when a guy I’m with for the first time has more experience with porn than with flesh and blood women and let me tell you they’re kind of sad. I’d rather a guy be awkward (OK, 10 years ago when I was still in my 20s I’d rather a guy be awkward – now that I’m older they better damn well know what they’re doing) and sweet than pretend he’s auditioning for a role in an amateur porno.

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